Summer
is here!
Water
Safety
With warm (hot) weather finally upon us,
the pools and water on the beaches and lakes are warming up,
ready to entertain the masses for another season. It's time to
enjoy the outdoors and take the kids out for some water play.
Swimming and water play are great exercise for the entire family,
and a good night's sleep for all involved is almost guaranteed.
As with any other fun activity, please keep in mind safety advice
regarding children and water.
* Never let your child
swim alone. Model the rules for your children and insist
that they follow them.
* Always wear
sunscreen if outdoors for more than 15 minutes. Avoid swimming
between
10 am and 2 pm when the sun's rays are the most direct.
* Always supervise
children in the water, even those who can swim. A head injury can
occur in a split second, rendering a person unconscious and unable
to protect themselves if they fall in the water.
* Monitor the time
infants and small toddlers are in the water. These young children
can swallow too much pool water, which can decrease their sodium
concentration, which can cause seizures. Take a break for a snack
every hour or two.
* Older children and
adults should also take breaks every hour or two to drink water
and have snacks to avoid dehydration.
* Take extra
precaution if swimming in a natural body of water. Wear a
flotation device if in a river, lake, etc.
* Be careful if
swimming in warm fresh water. Wading is not dangerous, but diving
can be deadly. Head and neck injuries can occur, and an organism (Naegleria)
can live in warm, fresh water. This amoeba can infect the brain
through the nose if a person dives or swims under water in a warm,
natural body of water, usually a pond. This infection is rare, but
usually fatal.
Remember always, if your child is
missing...Check the pool first!
Taking a few simple precautions and using common sense during
this swimming season can prevent injuries and illnesses associated
with water activities...
Have fun!
Summer Chores
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Summer
provides a golden opportunity for kids as young as three to
contribute to the well-being of the family. Children love being
useful and develop a sense of self worth knowing that their family
depends on them.
Before summer vacation starts, take time to decide on your
children's summer chores. If you make chore expectations clear from
the first day of summer vacation, your children will cooperate
better than if you try to set a routine after three weeks of taking
it easy.
Delegate age appropriate chores such as loading and unloading the
dishwasher, setting the table, taking out the garbage and
recyclables, washing windows, doing yard work, and even
learning to cook some simple meals. Start delegating this summer!
Your children's future spouses will thank you for it!
Sunburn Burns
It's summer. It's sunny.
It's great to be outdoors, and it is easy to get sunburned.
Remember: you usually do not feel sunburn until it is too
late. Don't spoil a good time by letting your children get
burned. Liberally apply sunscreen with a high SPF ( 30 or
greater). Reapply it often. Most importantly, limit your
child's exposure to the sun, especially during mid-day when the sun is
usually strongest.
Should Sunscreen Be Applied To Infants?
Before 1999, the
American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) took the position that sunscreen
should not be used on children younger than 6 months of age. In
August 1999 the AAP revised its position stating that it may be safe to
use sunscreen on infants younger than 6 months of age when adequate
clothing and shade are not readily available.
Avoiding sun exposure and dressing
infants in lightweight long pants and long-sleeved shirts are still the
top recommendations from the AAP to prevent sunburn. However, when
adequate clothing and shade are not available, parents can apply a minimal
amount of sunscreen to small areas, such as the infant's face and back of
the hands.
Sunscreens have an expiration date for
good reason. They have a shelf life of about two years after
which the chemicals begin to separate from the solution. If your
sunscreen feels gritty, the solution has separated and should be
discarded.
Source: American Academy of
Pediatrics
Children's eyes are considerably more
sensitive to the harmful effects of the sun than yours. The culprit
is Ultraviolet light (UV) and children's eyes need to be protected from
it. Make certain young children wear a wide-brimmed hat if
possible. This will allow protection not only to the eyes but to the
scalp, face and neck areas as well. Noted pediatrician Dr. Barry
Sears makes a very surprising point about the possible dangers of children
wearing toy sunglasses to protect their eyes from the sun. Dr. Sears
reports that toy sunglasses may be worse than none at all, because the toy
variety simply darken the eye area, causing baby' pupils to widen and
allow more damaging light to reach their lenses and retinas of their eyes.
If your child wears sunglasses to protect their eyes from the sun be
certain that he/she only has sunglasses with 100-percent UV filtration.
Source: Barry Sears, M.D.
Summer Visits To Museums And
Libraries
Summers are a great time to visit
museums and libraries with your child., especially this summer with the
current recession and a need to 'cut back' on expenses. Check your local newspaper
for a list of museums in your area and special exhibits they may be
hosting. Talk to your child about which exhibits interest them most.
Call the museum and find out about a children's area. Ask about
dates and times for special classes. If your child likes working with
paint, for example, find out when painting classes are being offered.
Take a notepad with you and write down
your child's questions. When you return home, take time to research
the answers to these questions. Use your local resources including
the library, the Internet, or local experts. This time together will
lead into other areas of interest.
If you do not have a local museum, take
your child to Paris and visit the Louvre via the Internet. You can
also visit different Smithsonian displays via the Internet. Many
large museums now display their exhibits on the Internet. At this
time the Statue of Liberty and its pedestal are closed to visitors but you
can take a virtual, photo tour on the Internet by clicking the following
address: www.nyctourist.com/liberty1.htm
Most libraries host weekly reading
hours. Find out when your local library hosts this time for your
child's age group. Often the librarians will invite guest speakers,
arrange craft projects, or host local members of the community. to help
with the program.
Follow the program yourself and use the
time to model for your child how you enjoy reading, learning and getting
involved in the books that interest you.
Notice the areas your child finds
interesting. You may find that your child has interests that neither
of you were aware of.
I f you library does not host such a
time, schedule time each week to visit the library with your child.
Challenge him/her to read a specific number of books over the
summer. Better yet, challenge one another and set a reward that both
of you can enjoy if you each meet your goals.
Along, and together, with these
activities comes one of the most enjoyable aspects of summertime for
kids: 'free time' that comes with it. Parents, you can
maximize your child's 'free time' by realizing it works best with a
little structure from you. If you allow your child to spend all
his/her 'free time' lying on the couch watching TV, for example,
opportunities are lost for using this time more wisely.
If your child complains of boredom
without the TV don't see this a necessarily bad. Garrison Keillor
talks of the time, as a boy, he spent on the hard-backed bench in church
where he was required to sit for hours on Sundays, as a time where his
imagination was developed.
It will be those times when your child
has nothing to do but sit and think that they are most likely to stretch
and develop his/her imagination.
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Parents can make
resolutions to communicate and have better relationships with their
toddlers an
d preschoolers.
Now that the
new year has been half-way established, it is time to reflect on what has been done the past
few months and what can be improved in the next year. Parents may want
to make more commitments to be better and more effective parents. Some
of the following suggestions may work.
Research
has proven that developing literacy skills begins at birth. These
skills can be accessed through everyday loving interactions,
such as sharing books, telling stories, singing songs, talking to one
another, or pointing out and naming objects. Melrose Daycare
incorporates daily into their schedules, different ways that promote,
encourage, and help build these early literacy skills.
A
free article from the Zero to Three Journal... 
"Some
infants take self-regulation into their own hands and use sign language
to modify their own behavior in emotionally challenging situations."
Be Attentive to Children
When talking
to children, listen carefully to what they say. Give them the attention
they deserve. Refrain from just nodding and saying yes from time to time
without actually registering what they say. The little people know when
their parents are not listening and may feel neglected. So put
everything aside, come down to the children's height and look at them
when they talk. It's easier to see their emotions and expressions that
way. And when they know Mum or Dad is really listening, they are more
open and happy.
Avoid Shouting at Children
Sometimes, children do get on
their parents' nerves...and it's often hard for parents not to raise
their voices at the children when they are out of control. Parents who find
themselves in such a situation should just step back, take a few deep
breaths and count to ten before saying anything to the children.
Another effective way is to
say out loud that Mom is upset now and would appreciate some cooperation
from the kids. It's amazing how kids quickly get the message when
there is some clear warning in Mum's tone. When the parent is calm and
in control, it will be easier to control the kids too.
Praise Good
Behavior
Most parents never fail to
reprimand a child when he misbehaves. But most also hardly compliment a
child when he does behave properly. To encourage beautiful manners,
praise the child each time he behaves well, no matter how small the
gesture is. If he says "thank you" and "please", shower him with
praises. He/she'll be beaming with pride and more likely to continue
behaving politely.
Substitute Saying
"Don't" and "No" with
other Positive Words
Parents use a lot of "Don'ts"
and "No's" when talking to children. After a while,
all the negatives will just fall on deaf ears. Change the tune to make
the message clearer. Instead of saying "Don't climb up the table",
say "Come sit on the couch". Try "Please pack up your toys"
instead of "Don't leave your toys all over the floor". Focus on
the positive to encourage positive results.
Play with Children
All children love to play and
will readily welcome their parents joining them whenever they play. Give
them piggy back rides, play sports, fly kites, attend their pretend tea
parties, have fun with the family pets, etc. Allocate at least half an
hour just for this sort of playtime. When parents play with their
children, they are seen as buddies and not just disciplinarians and that
can boost parent-child relationships.
Helping Your Child
Love To Read
To get a non-reader interested in reading you can create books with your
child. Not only does this encourage reading or wanting to be read to,
but it also provides an opportunity for a family activity.
You can make a book for or with your baby or young child by cutting
sturdy pieces of fabric or cardboard into square pieces. Glue a large,
colorful picture of the child, family members, pets, toys, or other
things your child may be familiar with on each page.
You may also want to glue on a piece of sandpaper, fabric, or other
textured items that the child can feel. Write a word or a couple of
words in large, clear letters under the picture and bind together by
sewing, stapling or using a three-hole punch and yarn or ribbon.
Dr.
William Walker Jr., Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Read to Children
You
may want to check out the books...
Poems to Learn to Read By...
designed for adults to read with children that promotes both bonding and
early literacy.
Circles
in the Nursery which discusses the
significance of ethnicity and culture when working with multicultural
families.
Children love listening to
stories. So read to them every day. Ten to 15 minutes of short story
reading daily is something easily done. Be as expressive as possible
when reading lines from characters of a book. Kids light up whenever Dad
pretends to roar like a lion or when Mum sings out of tune. Reading to
children is a great way to spend quality family time. Plus, it
helps develop a young child's language skills and inculcate the
reading habit.
Granted, parenting is not an
easy job. However, by paying more attention to children, avoiding screaming
at them, praising good behavior, focusing on the positive, playing with
them and reading to them regularly, both parents and children will be
able to enjoy a better relationship.
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How
to Help Your Child
Love To Read
Of course, you
will want to introduce him/her to great children's literature which has
character, beauty, poetic language, intriguing images and stories that
make us think about everyday moments or life's possibilities and
struggles. Excellence may be as loud as a peddler yelling at
monkeys with hats or as quiet as a little old lady whispering hush, as
fantastic as land of wild things or as down to earth as snowy day: as
quirky as a cowardly lion or as universal as late blooming Leo.
These books have room for witches and trolls, bunnies and bears, brave
little girls and foolish little boy's (and the reverse), rascals and
villains, photos and illustrations, sadness and joy. Of course,
good books are a matter of individual taste and merit a spirited
discussion.
Choosing
Books
First of all, books must be desirable. To find them, comb reviews
in respected publications and study books that have received special
recognition such as the Caldecott Award, given by the American Library
Association to the Best Children's Picture Book of the Year. Teachers
and librarians let us know which books they like, and which books
children respond to.
Will
children relate to and enjoy the meaning of the book?
Do the illustrations stand up on their own and interact
artistically with the text?
How universal is the message?
Will the book withstand the test of time?
Next a book is
judged for its adaptability. Not all good books make good
audiovisual adaptations. All the mood and action described in the text
must appear in the illustrations. The graphic style which includes the
striking qualities of the lines, color and composition must lend itself
to reproduction in an audiovisual medium.
Finally, if a book meets these standards, determine its availability.
Films, read-along cassettes and CD-ROMS made from the books provide
formats whereby children can easily experience the text over and over
again, helping to build a reading scaffold that broadens vocabularies,
stretches attention spans and flexes thinking skills.
The following are some notable books for your consideration...

Scared
at night ?
How many times have we heard that laughter is
the best medicine. Well, in your house we think you might have some luck
with laughter in the face of mild night frights.
As most of us know, many preschool children
have the habit at night when they get scared of waking their parents to
take care of the scary thing. Lately, though, a new children's
book seems to have been a help for some.
The book, entitled "The Very Noisy
Night," is written by Diana Hendry and illustrated by Jane
Chapman. One reviewer commented, this "book will delight youngsters
frightened by things that go bump in the night." Since laughter
begins to familiarize us with new situations and breaks down our fears
somewhat, it's a bet that this book may help your child outgrow some
night fears. Plus, it's a fun read.
Click the site below for a
story...
http://www.aspecialplace.net/Childrenscorner/stories/something_in_backyard.htm
Book Reviews
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Establish
a sense that books are valuable and precious.
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Kitten's First Full Moon
- Kevin Henkes
From one of the most beloved picture book
creators of today comes a memorable new character and a
suspenseful adventure. Kitten sees her first full moon, but she
thinks it's a bowl of milk and tries to get at it. |
Dazzle the Dinosaur
A young dinosaur with unique
glittering spines bravely decides to help his family and friends.
He leaves to find the feared Dragonsaurus who had driven the dinosaur
herd from their cave. This a well-done story with beautiful
illustrations.
Rainbow Fish
Rainbow Fish learns to make friends by
sharing his prized shimmering scales with others. Use this
charming story to talk with you child about the dangers of pride and of
the importance of sharing.
Rainbow Fish to the Rescue
In this story, the Rainbow Fish
learns the importance of doing what you believe in, regardless of the
opinions of your peers. This is a good story to begin to discuss
the problems of peer pressure with your child and the importance
of being sensitive to the feelings and needs of others, especially those who
are different.
Mommies Say
Shhhh
Writer and
Illustrator Patricia Pollaco
Horses, cows and goats, oh my! Neighing and mooing and naaing!
This colorful, noisy menagerie in the barnyard is enough to drive a
mother, with her infant child, to finally tell them all to hush -
because only "mommies say shhh".
Diary of a
Worm
Author Doreen
Cronin and Illustrator Harry Bliss unearth a young worm's diary,
revealing a hilarious delightful world of very human-like worms.
Young readers love the humor and learn a few things along the way.
Yesterday I
Had the Blues
Author Jeron
Ashford Frame and Illustrator R. Gregory Christie
A rainbow of emotions is captured in rich hues and vibrant angles, and
mesmerizing rhythmical text. Yesterday I Had the Blues is a
great book to talk about the feeling of everyday life while stretching
children's power to express themselves.
Frog Goes
to Dinner - Mercer Mayer - Pre-K-4
A frog escapes
from a boy's pocket in a famous restaurant and creates havoc for all
involved.
Angus Lost
- Marjorie Flack - Pre-K-4
Angus, a very
curious and clever Scottish Terrier sets out on a series of adventures
after wandering away from home. Although lost for a time, Angus
finally manages to figure out how to get back to his owner, who is
anxiously awaiting his return.
Duck For
President - Doreen Cronin - Pre-K-3
A winning
little morality tale about greed and ambition...children will take to
this, well, like a duck to water and adults will get a kick out of all
the sly election year humor.
Please check out Shel Silverstein's
book series of 'Runny Babbitt'.
These are delightful.
One really
good book on the subject of left-handed children is, "Loving
Lefties: How To Raise Your Left-Handed Child In A Right-Handed
World," by Jane M. Healey. Ms. Healey devotes an entire book to
the subject of parenting a left-handed child.
Excellent
site for Children's Book Selections:
http://www.powells.com/psection/Childrens.html
Excellent site for
specifically Pre-k to Grade 4:
http://teacher.scholastic.com/products/westonwoods/catalog/award.asp?catid=2&title=Critics'%20Choice
Click the following sites for
suggestions for good books for all children of all ages.
Newbery Award is awarded
yearly to the author of the most distinguished contribution to American
literature for children.
http://www.alibris.com/books/awards/newbery_medal_winners.cfm
Caldecott Award is
awarded yearly to the artist of the most distinguished picture book for
children.
http://www.alibris.com/books/awards/caldecott_award_winners.cfm
Read to your children daily: some way, some
how.
Be creative....
get Dad to do
it.
Growing a
Writer
Young
children like to communicate. As soon as they develop the motor
skills to make marks with crayon or marker, they can begin their lives
as writers. Sure, you may
not know what those scribbles or pictures mean, but your child
does. You can begin the process of exchanging notes when your
child is 2 or 3 years old and encourage a lifelong pattern of written
communication.
. Write notes to your child (
words or pictures) and leave in the lunch box or on the refrigerator.
. Put a marker board in your
child's room at his or her height and leave regular notes ( words or
pictures). Encourage your child to respond.
. Give your 4 year old a journal
and encourage daily entries (scribbles or pictures). Better yet get an
identical journal and share your thoughts together.
Courtesy of e-family news - Bright
Horizons Family Solutions
We are asking parents to
please volunteer one hour during the year
What
is Back-Up Child Care?
Back-up child care is
needed when a working parents' primary child care breaks down or is
unavailable, including:
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Family child care providers,
nannies, and grandparents get sick or go on vacation
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School is unexpectedly closed due
to inclement weather
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Scheduled school vacations
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Maternity transition/return to
work periods
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When parents are in between child
care arrangements
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Why
is so difficult to find back- up child care? |
Like
health insurance, good backup care is so expensive that average families
struggle to pay. Often
these fees are $100 per
day. To fill these brief, often unpredictable needs, skilled caregivers
must be available to come to your home on short notice; in another
option, some child-care centers charge a fee to set aside backup slots for children whose regular care
isn't available.
Avoiding
unscheduled employee absences is a mounting concern for employers, and
child-care breakdowns are a leading cause.
Some providers of backup-care programs are paying about $10 to
$40 an employee a year for employee subsidies and support services.
Prices vary based on the services and the size of the employer.
These safety nets are invaluable to those to whom it is
available; about 9% of the U.S. work force.
The other 91% had better plan ahead.
The
bottom line: It is
essential to start planning for backup care very, very early.
If you are among the have-nots and don't have access to
employer help, plan on paying roughly $18 to $25 an hour for in-home
care, or $25 to $100 a day for a slot in a child-care center.
Consider
asking a relative, neighbor or friend for backup care help, perhaps
paying them or bartering services. Research providers in advance,
including family child-care homes, child-care centers and nanny or
in-home care agencies
.
Screen
your options in advance, pre-register and give your child a chance to
try out the setup.
As
burdensome as all this might seem, it can do much to ward off
work-family crises in the future.
Getting
Backup
·
Ask your
regular sitter for substitutes.
·
Ask a relative,
neighbor or friend.
·
Check if your
employer offers referrals or subsidies.
·
Pre-register
with more than one provider.
Excerpts: Sue
Shellenbarger – (Wall Street Journal)
Newest
Parent Survey reveals family, upbringing, and faith are most critical
influences on child rearing.
What Matters
Most
As one mother said, ". . . what matters in a
family is love and devotion, not gourmet meals, a sparkling kitchen, or
ticking off jobs on a to-do list." There is no replacement for
giving our children love and devotion. Toys, new clothes and CDs are
nice, but they will never substitute for what comes from within you.
Good Parenting Action Point:
On a daily basis, no matter how busy you are, find at least one way to
express love and devotion to your child. An "I love you"
with a hug is a very good place to start.
Dr.
William Walker Jr., Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
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One
of the most challenging aspects of work with infants and toddlers
is finding ways to support them during stressful and traumatic
times in their lives. Some children face separation from a
parent (because of divorce, military deployment, incarceration, or
death) or experience violence at home or within the community.
Other children struggle with disorders in eating or sleeping that
can cause stress for their families. The adults who care for these
children can provide a sense of safety and security that will help
them to overcome those difficult experiences.
The
Anxious Child/Separation Issues
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All children
experience anxiety. Anxiety in children is expected and normal
at specific times in development. For example, from
approximately age 8 months through the preschool years, healthy
youngsters may show intense distress (anxiety) at times of
separation from their parents or other persons with whom they
are close. Young children may have short-lived fears, (such as
fear of the dark, storms, animals, or strangers). Anxious
children are often overly tense or uptight. Some may seek a lot
of reassurance, and their worries may interfere with activities.
Parents should not discount a child’s fears. Because anxious
children may also be quiet, compliant and eager to please, their
difficulties may be missed. Parents should be alert to the signs
of severe anxiety so they can intervene early to prevent
complications. There are different types of anxiety in children.
Symptoms of separation anxiety include:
- constant thoughts and intense fears about the safety of
parents and caretakers
- refusing to go to school
- frequent stomachaches and other physical complaints
- extreme worries about sleeping away from home
- being overly clingy
- panic or tantrums at times of separation from parents
- trouble sleeping or nightmares
Symptoms of phobia include:
- extreme fear about a specific thing or situation (ex.
dogs, insects, or needles)
- the fears cause significant distress and interfere with
usual activities
Symptoms of social anxiety include:
- fears of meeting or talking to people
- avoidance of social situations
- few friends outside the family
Other symptoms of anxious children include:
- many worries about things before they happen
- constant worries or concerns about family, school,
friends, or activities
- repetitive, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) or actions
(compulsions)
- fears of embarrassment or making mistakes
- low self esteem and lack of self-confidence
Severe anxiety
problems in children can be treated. Early treatment can prevent
future difficulties, such as loss of friendships, failure to
reach social and academic potential, and feelings of low
self-esteem. Treatments may include a combination of the
following: individual psychotherapy, family therapy,
medications, behavioral treatments, and consultation to the
school.
Click
below to read complete article:
http://www.aacap.org/publications/factsfam/anxious.htm
American
Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry
Fun Activities to Stimulate Learning
10 Things To Do With Your Toddler
Toddlers
love to play games with Mommy and Daddy.
Turn play time into learning
time with these fun activities. |
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Click the website below for creative suggestions..
http://kids-educational-activities.suite101.com/article.cfm/10_things_to_do_with_your_toddler
Click the website below for a comprehensive
Activity Guide for Toddlers and Pre-schoolers.
http://www.kristinegeorge.com/UP_Activity_Guide.pdf

Click the website below for how the
Media ( TV -
Advertising )
affects your child and how to control it...
http://www.pbs.org/parents/childrenandmedia/milestones-3.html
Great
information about caring for your baby's and toddler's teeth..
Click
below to read complete article:
http://www.smilezonekids.com/faq.asp
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Clean
Hands Do Help...

Most pediatricians recommend your child wash his/her hands a minimum
of four times a day. Each time your children are involved in
activities that include extended interaction with others, they should
wash their hands.
We cannot emphasize enough the importance of good hand hygiene in preventing the spread of
infections. Help stop the spread of germs by following the:
Four
Principles of Clean Hands Awareness
1) WASH your hands when they are dirty and BEFORE
eating.
2) DO NOT cough into your hands.
3) DO NOT sneeze into your hands.
(If a tissue is not handy, pull open the collar of
your shirt and sneeze into the inside of your shirt.)
4) Above all, DO NOT put your fingers into your
eyes, nose or mouth!
Have your child sing Happy Birthday
to
him/herself once while washing his/her
hands to insure a thorough washing.
Make it fun
and let's keep it going!
However,
there will be many times you will need
First Aid for minor
cuts, scrapes and burns. Anything else call your doctor.
Infection of the area is of major concern.
If you need to apply a band-aid or bandage be certain it will not
'stick' to the wound which will prevent consistent healing. Smooth
bandages and band-aids are for that purpose. You may also need to
cleanse the wound first, if so do that with peroxide, then apply an
'over the counter' anti-biotic ointment which contains Zinc.
Zinc , an emollient
when added to the
anti-biotic ointment, helps to keep the wound
covered which aids the healing process.
These products are available in your local pharmacies.
You will need to change the dressing only once a day unless it has been
disturbed in some way.
I
Am Special.
Raising a child includes not
only nurturing him intellectually, but also socially and emotionally.
You can help your child become a competent, confidant individual by
giving your child a strong sense of self and fostering independence, but
also by encouraging him to make friends and teaching him to share.
All children are unique. By celebrating
individuality you teach tolerance and help kids feel good about
themselves. There are activities which will help every child understand
they are special.
Some Age-Appropriate Activities:
Infant: Name Game
Toddler: [Child's
name] Can...
Preschool: My Face Can
Say...
School-Age: The Mirror
Game
Click
link below for 'Tips
for Toddlers'
- 12-15 months - features how to bond with your child.
http://www.zerotothree.org/magic/
Teach Values
Younger children do not understand what is meant by
empathy, cooperation, kindness and perseverance. Several fun ways
to teach these are...
PLANT A GARDEN:
( spring is a good time of year for this) growing even a single
flower can demonstrate how perseverance
pays off - but it is more fun to nurture a
small garden instead. The trick is not to try your child's
patience too much. Marigolds and zinnias are easy to grow.
Sunflowers are great also because kids get a kick out of their
height. When everything is in bloom, have your child make a
bouquet for a neighbor which will teach them thoughtfulness
also.
If you plant vegetables as well -
peas, lettuce and radishes grow fast.
You can cook them or eat them raw after washing. This is a wonderful
demonstration of the satisfaction self-reliance
can bring. Bonus: usually a child is much more willing to eat
his/her 'veggies' if he/she planted and tended them themselves.
Exercise
-- Healthy Fun for the Whole Family
Don't forget to involve them in healthy activities. How
about a family walk after dinner? Or a fun game at the park? It's great
family fun and healthy for everyone!
- M. Ellman
A whole new world opens up once your toddler
starts to talk, but what happens when the words don't come easily?
Building
language and literacy skills in infants, toddlers and 'twos'.
The
greatest opportunity to build strong language and literacy skills is
in the first five years of life. A baby’s brain is primed for
acquiring language. When they are around caring and responsive adults
who talk with them, engage them in conversations, read to them every
day, and teach them songs and rhymes, they are eager to engage with
people and communicate. Because infants, toddlers, and twos are so
motivated to communicate, you can take advantage of this opportunity
to truly make a difference that will last a lifetime.
Fortunately,
it is not hard to provide the rich opportunities infants, toddlers,
and twos need to acquire language and the building blocks of literacy.
It does, however, require being intentional about what you do every
day, all day. The building blocks for language and literacy include
experiences that enable young children to acquire vocabulary and
language, hear the different sounds and rhythms of language, enjoy
books and stories, and explore writing.
by
Diane Trister Dodge, Sherrie Rudick, and Kai-Leé
Berk
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Children And Choking
Infants and children under the age of four can easily
choke on food and small objects. Choking occurs when food or small
objects block the airway, preventing oxygen from getting to the lungs
and brain. More than four minutes without oxygen can lead to brain
damage and death.
What can parents and caregivers do to help prevent this danger? First be
aware of the foods most likely to cause choking. The American Academy of
Pediatrics identifies the following foods as high risk for younger
children:
Hot dogs; nuts; chunks of meat and cheese; whole grapes; hard or sticky
candy; popcorn; chunks of peanut butter; raw carrots. Be
especially careful with their Christmas candy during this coming
Holiday Season.
Good Parenting Action Points:
1) Be aware of which foods pose a high risk of choking in young children
and avoid them if possible
2) Never give your preschooler any of the listed foods without adult
supervision
3) If your children do eat these foods, insist they take very small
bites and chew extra thoroughly -- if they aren't willing to do this
don't allow them to have the food.
4) Learn infant/child CPR (which should include choking first-aid).
More on choking situations later.
Dr. William Walker, Jr.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Resolving
To Have Physically Healthy Children
There is no better role model than a parent. Nutritionists say parents
need to take the lead regarding one's health, not just for themselves, but also for their
children.
The alternative is a continued rise in chronic disease and overall poor
physical health. Marjorie Sawicki, MS, RD, of the Saint Louis University
School of Allied Health Professions states:
"In as little as 15 years, when today's teenagers hit their 30s, we
could see another rise in heart disease, diabetes and cancer. I don't
think you will ever see these chronic diseases go away until we can
remedy the problem of poor fitness and diet. While medical research
tries to find treatments, I prefer to address prevention."
Make resolutions with your
children. Two important elements for a healthier child are healthy food and
lifestyle habits and regular physical activity.
- Dr. William Walker, Jr.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
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Helping Children
Learn Self-discipline
Maybe the most
important step in learning self-discipline is making sure
your child knows exactly what is expected of them.
Misbehavior is often the result of parents failing to
communicate their behavior expectations to their child –
or assuming the child already knows them.
Good Parenting Action Point:
In a clear and age-appropriate manner discuss with your
child your expectations for them. These expectations
should include what you consider acceptable and
unacceptable behavior, as well as your family's core
values.
-
Dr. William Walker Jr., Licensed Marriage & Family
Therapist
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In the May 2005
issue of Parents magazine you will find a Growth
Calculator which will help you to
see how your baby's height and weight measure up to others of his/her
age.
You know you do not have to look like everybody else
to be acceptable and to feel acceptable.
Fred Rogers - Mister Rogers Neighborhood
For more information on growing
readers and writers, go to:
www.brighthorizons.com
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Developing
Baby's Brain
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Toddler
Property Laws

If I like it, it's mine!
If it is in my hand, it's mine!
If I had it a little while ago, it's mine!
If it is mine, it must never appear to be yours,
in any way!
If I am doing or building something, all the pieces are
mine!
If it looks just like mine, it's mine
If I think it's mine, it's mine!
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